Why Choose AI-Powered Couples Coaching?

Your personal compass for a happy relationship

Imagine having a reliable compass to guide your partnership. That’s exactly what my AI-powered couples coaching offers: innovative, self-directed support. For example, it helps you uncover harmful patterns in how you interact. In doing so, it draws your attention to stress factors in your relationship.

Recognize harmful patterns

You then receive clear, practical suggestions to change these patterns and foster more harmony—while you always remain in control.

Develop concrete action steps

At every stage, you decide which steps to take next, ensuring you keep full control over your own path.

An AI navigation system for your relationship

Think of my AI-powered couples coach as a dependable navigation system for your partnership. It’s been thoughtfully trained to distinguish helpful from unhelpful thinking and clearly show you the next steps toward greater harmony and happiness.

Human experience meets artificial intelligence

Although AI is a machine, its knowledge is rooted in human experience. Consider it a bridge to concentrated expert wisdom—much like using a telephone to reach an experienced advisor. In other words: when you talk to my AI clone, you’re actually communicating indirectly with me and the network of experts whose knowledge shapes this advice.

Openness and trust for the best results

To get the most out of your coaching, communicate as openly and honestly with the AI as you would in a face-to-face session. Your openness is built on a secure foundation: no personal data is stored. Plus, my service is completely free—there’s no need to provide a credit card or even an email address.

Start now and discover new perspectives

So take the leap and experience this unique type of guidance. Discover new perspectives for your relationship—then share your experiences, so I can help you even more effectively!

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The following psychological approaches form the foundation of my practical work with couples:
Positive Psychology (Martin Seligman)
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (Steve de Shazer)
Systemic Therapy (Paul Watzlawick)
Logical Thinking (Socrates)Accordion Content

Here’s how to get the most out of coaching for yourself and your relationship:
My AI assistant isn’t a search engine, but an empathetic relationship coach. 

The more you talk to it as you would to a trusted therapist—openly sharing your concerns—the more targeted and personally relevant its responses become.

Being detailed is key!
The more you share about your situation, the better the AI clone can help you both.

Examples are invaluable!
The more concrete your examples, the more personalized the strategies will be.

Together is better!
You’ll get the best advice if you use the AI clone together with your partner.

Extra tip for longer conversations:
At the end of your session, ask for a summary and save it. This has two benefits:

• You can use the summary to remind the AI relationship coach of your last conversation if it doesn’t remember.

   

The summary helps you recognize the insights you developed together even more clearly.

Vita

David Wilchfort, born April 7, 1946, is a specialist in Psychotherapeutic Medicine and Doctor of Medicine from the University of Toronto, Canada. 

For over five decades, he has been a prominent figure in Munich’s psychotherapy scene, with a particular focus on couples therapy.

Education and Professional Background:
Medical and specialist training:

• McGill University, Montreal, Canada
• Ludwig Maximilian University, Munich
• University of Toronto, Canada
• Max Planck Institute of Psychiatry, Munich
• Munich Psychoanalytic Working Group

Additional Qualifications:

• Trainer for behavioral therapy (certified by the Medical Association due to special expertise)
• Trainer for psychoanalysis (also certified by the Medical Association)
• Trainer for couples and family therapy

Professional Activity:
Since 1973, David Wilchfort has run his own psychotherapy practice in Munich, operating as a health insurance practice until 2007. Since 1972, he has helped couples create happier and more fulfilling relationships. His many years of experience and expertise make him a sought-after therapist and trainer in various psychotherapeutic disciplines.

Own Method:
He developed the method “The 1×1 of Love,” which received positive evaluations in studies at Friedrich Schiller University of Jena and Ludwig Maximilian University of Munich.

Media and Online Engagement:

• Videos and online content: David Wilchfort has published over 1,000 videos on platforms like YouTube and TikTok, sparking thought and freeing people from misconceptions about relationships. His video on the misconception that infatuation has an expiration date has been viewed over half a million times.
• Free online support: Since 1996, he has run a free website offering support for “successful partnerships.” This early web presence has earned him countless thank-you emails.
• Interviews and publications: Since 1986, he has given interviews to both mainstream and specialist media, including renowned publications such as the Süddeutsche Zeitung.

Lectures and Seminars:
Throughout his career, David Wilchfort has given numerous lectures and seminars, including:

• On sexual medicine for doctors at a conference of the Bavarian State Medical Association
• Opening lecture for a congress of the German Society for Urology

Personal:
David Wilchfort has been happily married for more than 50 years. He is the father of one son and a proud grandfather of three grandchildren

David Wilchfort

Ziegelhofstr. 7a

81247 München

089 8113600

david@wilchfort.de

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